I did not check first about the title of this post, whether it is correct or wrong idiom.
I have watched a movie entitled "Four Brother". It tells us about the relationship among four men, 2 whites and 2 blacks, in a family.
This 'lebaran' taught me a lot, especially about what a family was.
My cousin told me that my granny from my mother said that i was different, that i had been changed after i had a good job.
Well, yess, i have been changed...my eyes and my heart finally know the truth about my granny.
She always talks bad about people around her. Even she complaints about a toddler, her cicit, qho does not know yet about the rule of good talking.
What makes me feel sad is when she talks about my older cousin.
Before she married, my granny always forced her to get married soon. After getting married, she was forced to pregnant. Even my granny calls my older cousin as 'gabuk'. A very mean word which came out of an old person.
The first time i heard about my granny's saying, i felt so sad. Not because what she said, but because i rememberred about what my husband's saying (amanat): nek bali pemalang, rasah nginep neng omah bapak, rasah ngrungokke omongan keluargamu.
It is like my husband could guess what actually happen in my family. Their true colour...
#Ayah, forgive me :-(
It is so different when i am with my husband's family. They talk about positivity and have jokes. It grows close relationship among us. My husband's big family comes from different background of jobs, from sellers up to bosses, but all of them are succesfull.
The athmosphere is always positive.
#Thanks God..You give a good husband and a better family.
judule radongblashhaha
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